9 Signs Your Marriage Will Last
9 Signs Your Marriage Will Last 1. You dated for a while (but had your own place) Emory University researchers studied 3,000 married couples in the U.S., they found that couples who dated for three years or more before getting engaged were 39% less likely to divorce than those who saw each other for a year or less. 研究顯示拍拖3年以上才結婚比只拍拖1年以內就結婚的,少39%會離婚。 Women who didn’t live with their partner before getting married had a 57% chance of celebrating their 20th anniversary, compared with 46% of women who cohabited. For men, the odds are similar: 60% of men who didn’t live with their partner clocked 20 years of marriage, compared with 49% who shacked up before the big day. 研究亦顯示女士若結婚前沒有與她的伴侶同居,將會多11%機會慶祝結婚20週年;男士也有類似發現,若結婚前男士沒有與伴侶同居,將會多11%機會慶祝結婚20週年。 2. You keep mmm-hmmms to a minimum (將支吾以對減到最少) Julie Gottman, a psychologist and renowned expert on marriage longevity, suggested that how you react can have a pr...